Defined in wordnetweb.princeton.edu as ‘arising from malice, a catty remark’, we immediately see the animalistic and therefore dehumanising connotations associated with the word ‘bitchy’.
As is evident in popular culture, ‘bitchy’ is a descriptive comment aimed towards women that can be extended to refer to gay men, or jokingly to the obviously heterosexual male. My problem with the word is twofold.
Firstly as I have suggested, it dehumanises woman. The insult ‘bitch’ knowingly meaning a female dog and synonymous with ‘catty’, linguistically deprives woman of her dignity and space in the cultural sphere as rational human.
My second problem with the word is the concept associated with the already detrimental word-in-itself. Being bitchy means making a petty, injurious remark, normally towards another female about her appearance or attitude. As both of these have been defined by men across the centuries these remarks serve only to divide women. The exclusivity that accompanies a bitchy remark spouted by a group of girls/women against another girl/woman is hugely detrimental and serves to undermine the little confidence that women are endowed with in this still patriarchic society.
I have heard many people, men and women alike, complain about the ‘bitchy’ nature of girls, especially as an excuse for why they prefer the company of males.
The bitchy concept stems from an inability of women (through prohibition, not capacity) to participate in the political/cultural sphere and a reduction of their interests to fashion and all that is petty. If we are removed from these spheres, and we still are to quite an extent, what else are we supposed to impassion us other than another girl’s hairstyle or the latest chick flick (encouraged as our interests by women’s magazines – the most obvious representation of definers of female identity). Over the course of history, this has sadly resulted in the political force we are naturally charged with being channelled towards the banal, leaving us with lack of role models, lack of history, but worst of all, a lack of confidence.